The Path to Silence: Empowering Focus and Clarity

Alexandra Mateus
4 min readJul 2, 2023

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The author by Janine Laag, Oct 2022. The author took the other photos in the Tirol region, Austria, Aug 2017.

I feel drained by the increasing overstimulation and the complexity we have nowadays, and how we grow in noise due to how life is structured.

Emails, deadlines, tones of beeps, events, tasks, people attempting to open pandora boxes while you are still determining if you benefit from it. All of it lets me feel a carousel of emotions.

The cacophony of responsibilities and expectations, or the clamour of my own racing thoughts and anxieties, makes me reflect that literal and metaphorical noise has a way of demanding my attention and drowning out the delicate whispers of my innermost self.

Existence becomes overly complicated when we submit ourselves to tasks without a clear why and what.

It is what life signs me if I don’t create in life a time and place to rediscover stillness or a sense of clarity. I lose the side of the track if I ignore it.

What if we pause and think?

Nothing can be more exhilarating in an age of acceleration than going slow. And in an age of distraction, nothing is so valuable as paying attention. And in an age of constant movement, nothing is so urgent as sitting still.

What if we use silence to still and be aware of the mind?

The mind is still, and the senses are sharp. We can then filter out the noise and feel what is worth holding on to.

Securing knowledge of my purpose will be the guide to editing down the complexity in life. Simplicity, therefore, can be defined as the result and the gold or juice of clarifying my goals.

“I closed my mouth and spoke to you in a hundred silent ways” ― Rumi

It’s in quieting the mind that empowers focus and simplicity. Simplicity requires we understand the roots of our distractions — and then develop a foundation of respect for why things can grow complex and overwhelming.

I had the insight that a balanced neurosensory system makes me strong, supporting me to face toxicity I may encounter throughout the week. As I nourish the body with healthy food, taking care of the neural system is essential. It is the network which connects body and mind.

I feel stronger as the body digests the toxicity in life in a way I know how to react. I then have a trained mind, and my mind, and more meaning if I connect my inner self and the outer world.

Here are a set of actions helping me to cultivate stillness and focus.

Practising Silence in Daily Routine
Incorporating periods of intentional silence into my daily routine. This can be done through activities like taking quiet walks, enjoying a cup of tea in silence, or dedicating specific times for reflection and solitude.

Practising breathing
Running outdoors in nature, and cycling on summer evenings when there are only a few people, are healthy ways of achieving pranayama. Or, you can have a yoga routine encouraging you to practice breathing.

Setting Boundaries
Learn to avoid excessive commitments or activities contributing to stress and anxiety. Establish boundaries prioritising your well-being and allow yourself time and space for self-care.

Quieting the mind in solitude
In forests or safely out of the beaten track beaches, depending on the area you are in, in a safe environment, spending time in natural environments where I can enjoy the sounds of rustling leaves or flowing water. Nature often provides a soothing soundscape helping you find a sense of serenity.

Engaging in creativity while quieting the mind
Writing or capturing visual references in your surroundings can help direct your attention into a state of flow and concentration. Moreover, it keeps you connected between the inner and outer worlds.

Limiting Stimuli
Reduce exposure to external stimuli that can clutter the mind, such as excessive noise, screens, or multitasking. Create a quiet and peaceful environment that allows your mind to settle and become more focused.

Listen to minimal electronic soundscapes that encourage focus or quiet the mind
Experimenting with different sounds I resonate with and balancing my creative process, pace, and mood can support me to sharp focus, inspiration and quiet the mind.

Quieting the mind is a skill that takes time and practice. The crucial step towards a quieter mind I found isn’t to get rid of thoughts. It’s to ask myself what my true longings are and the ends at which I aim. With consistent dedication, a non-judgmental attitude, and solitude, I can cultivate a quieter and calmer mind over time.

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Alexandra Mateus
Alexandra Mateus

Written by Alexandra Mateus

I help leaders to lead with compassion, adaptability, and awareness keeping optimal health so they feel grounded and resilient. https://alexandram.substack.com

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